In her article published in the New York Times titled "Shouting Is the New Spanking", the Amy McCready, family consultant alphabet and founder of the advisory site for Positive Parenting Solution parents explains that according to recent studies, hysterical yelling and screaming, have replaced alphabet its traditional "wood that came from heaven."
Parents according to Dr Mc Creedy distressed and with their guilt syndromes gigantomena them, looking to find the proper way to impose on their children. And while most parents today is obvious that wood thing of the past as a pedagogical method, nevertheless can not be imposed on themselves whenever small Toddler fail to discipline their suggestions. And resort to yelling. The result is that guilt can become a vicious cycle that never stops. Result: The only succeeded parents with raised voice is addicted children in this type of reactions and of course to continue alphabet undisturbed. If indeed the voices accompanied by anger, insults or even sarcasm, then it is possible to create the child feelings of rejection Before then cry again think that now you are able to terrorize a being who can not face you, but at the same time preparing the future "nervous and rude" son or daughter.
I stopped going to bed with a knot in the stomach, because I felt "the worst mother in the world." I stopped listening to my children "are you the worst mother in the world." I stopped feeling guilty about my boyfriend looked at me as if I was "the worst mom in the world." And the worst of the worst companion and lover.
All moms hide within us a Dr. Jekyll and a Hyde Lord. In front of strangers do good and patient, so as not to judge us negatively alphabet when we turn home become real shrew. However, it the one confuses children alphabet on the other confuses us the same. Consistency in behavior is not only a good example for children but good for us the same.
Like me, so children alphabet have good and their bad days. Some days are lovable, sweet and docile and others are twisted, alphabet listless and disobedient. Besides, what should never forget is that children learn as they grow. And they have a right to wrong. And nobody wants to scream when he is wrong. You want?
I would have found you. When you request alphabet something politely You acquire much more easily. Unlike when you request alphabet something rudely, the opposite you react negatively. Also usually with the hysteria that grips us and we begin our complex commands to the children: "hurry up, drink your milk, tie your laces, take your jacket, we were late ..." No child can not store as many commands. And to follow the course
When you are calm enjoy far more intensely beautiful moments. Even the 'Mom I love you "gets another dimension then. Remember the times when you put the kids to bed. These are the best moments of the day and the times when children can share with us the most beautiful feelings. Do you know why? Because then not scream.
It is a truth that often mothers experienced as guilt: I shout at children, because I stress at work, because "waiting period", or because of confusion with a driver on the road. Blame someone else and someone else pays. How unfair is that?
When you feel incredibly relaxed yoga, when you've just come out of a hot bath when you have just turned on the salon, or an outing with your girlfriends, you've noticed that you do not feel for voices? Totally normal. When only care for others and is committed to them body and soul, it is natural alphabet to have nerves and sometimes bad break out. When caring and yourself is natural to feel calmer, more relaxed and more lovable. Your kids will agree to it.
Besides calmer, more loving and more relaxed, and feel more radiant. I go to sleep and wake up without guilt happier. I feel more beautiful and good. And my children see it. And love me for it.
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